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The Ultimate Guide: How to Create a Hygge Lifestyle

2/27/2021

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Hygge is a mindset—a series of lifestyle choices, practicing deliberate moments of cozy comfort to improve your overall contentment and well-being. There’s no one right way to hygge, but you’ll know you’re doing it right when you feel relaxed, unhurried, cozy, and cared for. - How to Find Daily Moments of Sanctuary
Hey beloved!

If you're reading this, I'm betting it's because you want to create a more cozy, happier, hygge lifestyle. Enjoying moments of simple pleasure is more important than ever with all the radical changes our world has experienced and a new normal that seems to keep reinventing itself.

Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to find ways to create the happy moments during your days that will become happy memories by nightfall, and the hygge times of togetherness with those you love that will sustain you as all our lives continue to change. Whether you do so in person or not.

Have a look at what we'll explore in this guide, and then we will take a closer look at exactly what hygge is, what a hygge lifestyle is and how you can dive right in to creating one.
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Hygge Lifestyle Content


​What is Hygge?
Creating a Hygge Lifestyle (Video)
Journal Prompts
Hygge Morning Routines
Affirmations for a Cozy Morning Routine (Video)
10-Minute Morning Routines...
-Meditation
-Journaling
-Tea Time
-Spiritual Practice
-Self Care Ritual
Afternoon Tea at Home
Hygge Evening Routines
Hygge Weekends
-Cozy Weekends
-Self Care Sunday
Hygge Style
Hygge Home Decor Ideas
Hygge Home Meditation

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What is Hygge?


Hygge is an intended focus on creating warmth and coziness, both through what you do and what you place into your environment. It is an emphasis on doing all the comforting things you enjoy, and it’s a way to enhance those moments so that they are even sweeter.

So if you love to read, hygge plumps the pillow on the chair you’re sitting in, brings you a cup of tea, lights a candle nearby in your favorite scent and hangs your favorite throw over the back of your chair in case you get cold.

If you love spending time with your friends, hygge invites them over for game night, but tells them to come in time for nachos & beer first, and promises dessert after the games are over so your friends will stay longer and you’ll have an even better time.

Then, it adds cozy atmosphere in the room where everyone will be by keeping a fire lit so they’ll want to stay inside where it’s so warm and cozy, rather than leaving to face the cold.

Hygge is like a cozy best friend!

Simply put, according to the dictionary, it’s “a quality of coziness and comfortable conviviality that engenders a feeling of contentment or well-being (regarded as a defining characteristic of Danish culture).”

​Now that you getting a feel for what hygge is, can you imagine what it might feel like to build a lifestyle around that kind of coziness? Though a hygge lifestyle doesn't create perfection, it certainly cushions the landing and gives us a soft place to fall from life's inevitable blows.

So let's take a look at how you can create a hygge lifestyle...


How to Create a
​Hygge Lifestyle


Now, the secret to creating a cozy, hygge lifestyle that is perfect for you is to personalize it and make it your own. When you define what it means for you, it will fit you perfectly.

So, here are some journal prompts you can use to consider what you might want, specifically, in your own cozy lifestyle...
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Hygge Lifestyle
​Journal Prompts


(1) What would cozy comfort look & feel like in my own life? In my home?

(2) How can I create moments every day where I feel relaxed and unhurried?

(3) What makes me feel cared for, and how can I create that for myself?

(4) How can I create a lifestyle of contentment?

(5) What can I do today that feels like hygge?

Were you able to get clearer on how create coziness in your lifestyle, and what that might look and feel like?

One tip for getting additional ideas is to look at memories from childhood. What did coziness and comfort look and feel like back then?

Once you've got some ideas, the next step is to think about how to incorporate them into your daily routines. Let's start with mornings...

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Hygge Morning Routines


I want to begin this section by sharing what, to me, is the best idea for a hygge morning intention I have ever heard of, and I got it indirectly from Meik Wiking, who wrote two books referencing hygge happiness. One is The Little Book of Hygge, and the other is The Art of Making Memories.

It's the second book that gave me the idea for how to begin my day with a rather profound intention. It's this - my wish is that by the end of the day, I will have created at least one happy memory. Thank you, Meik Wiking!

Imagine that we can begin having happy experiences from the moment we wake up. But to think of calling a day good by the end is getting us a little bit off topic, I suppose.

Let's go back to the beginning.

What if your mornings could be cozy?

Denmark winters are cold, dark and dreary.

But Danish people fought back with hygge and they won! Could deliberately creating cozy, hygge moments help you take back your mornings the way it helped them take back winter?

The definition for cozy is giving a feeling of comfort, warmth and relaxation.

And hygge, pronounced hue-geh, is a word that is hard to translate precisely into English, but involves the same kinds of cozy feelings.

What would it be like to add elements of hygge coziness to your morning?

I know it has worked for me, over and over again. 

My mornings include a great big cup of tea, and any candle I want to light. Plus, other cozy moments that make each morning easier than mornings used to be.

Could that work for you, too?

Here are 5 ways to create cozy, hygge moments each morning…

(1) Light a tealight candle. This could be especially soothing if you wake up when it is still dark out, or not quite fully light.

(2) Drink your favorite beverage and give yourself time to linger over it.

Let yourself relax fully. And make that moment just about the tea or coffee, not a backdrop for whatever else you are doing.

(3) Spend your first moments in your favorite room and make it look cozy. Open the blinds or curtains to let the sunshine in.

Maybe you could have your beverage on your balcony or patio, so you can breathe in fresh air and watch the birds fly from one tree to the next.

(4) Instead of checking in on social media, to see whose pictures and status updates suggest they are is having a better life than everyone else, spend a few minutes reading, or listening to music that inspires and energizes you.

(5) Give yourself enough time to connect with someone you care about and you get to have the cozy warmth of that connection at the start of your day.

But in this time where we may need a little extra help staying grounded, here are affirmations with a cozy morning vibe...

As an added bonus to immersing myself in the moment, meditating for 10 minutes a day helped me develop a writing habit, a reading habit, a journaling habit, and a happier and healthier life. Simply put, meditation changed my life - and it could change yours too. - Blake Powell in The Mission, Medium.com 
Are you wondering how you're going to find the time for cozy self care, or for a hygge morning routine?

Well, the good news is, that any routine can be life-changing, even if you don't have much time. And if you can find ten minutes, there are a lot of hygge morning routines you can create.

Let's take a look at several possibilities for hygge morning routines that will only cost ten minutes of your time...
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10-Minute Morning Meditation


I know. I have heard it, too. That if you really want to benefit from creating a meditation practice, you’ll need more time.
 

But as stay at home moms, we may not have more time. Should we give up and call it a day? I don’t think so. 

You deserve to take time each day to get grounded and centered. Even if you only have ten minutes.

And I've also heard that you have to sit in certain positions to get the maximum benefit. But that doesn't sound very cozy, does it? I say grab the fuzzy socks, throw on the fluffy robe, sit in the comfy chair and let's take a few moments to relax and meditate...
 

The easiest way might be to simply sit quietly for ten minutes, focusing on breathing deeply and slowly.
 

You also could meditate on chosen words or phrases, or affirmations, like “breathing in peace,” or “I am centered and grounded,” or “God is with me.” 

Your ten-minute meditation could be a walking meditation, spent quietly observing nature. 

Or, you could try a guided meditation that is only ten minutes long.
 

You might spend your ten-minute meditation imagining a peaceful scene, and picturing yourself there. 

There are endless variations on these ideas and other ones you can try. The main thing to know is that you don’t have to give up on meditating just because you don’t have much time.
 

Taking time out to pause during a busy morning will always be a good idea even if that amount of time is short.
 

And on the weekend, you can give yourself more time to meditate. On a slow living Saturday, you could do a hygge meditation on an intention you have set for your life, and give yourself time to imagine it manifesting, taking in every detail you can think of and really placing yourself there, right in the middle of it.
 

On your cozy Self Care Sunday, you could meditate on a scene from the past week, taking the time to imagine and practice a few variations of how it could have gone differently.  

What if I had said that, instead? Or, what if I had felt more confident, peaceful, or empowered?  

Telling yourself a more peaceful version of the story and practicing it in meditation may help you create different outcomes in situations that come up in the future.
  

Or, you can take time during your Sunday morning meditation to dream up everything you want to experience during the following week. Let yourself see and feel it, as you imagine your intentions for the week coming true. 

What do you hope will be your best moments in the week to come? How might you sail through any challenges that come your way? 

Giving yourself more time to meditate each weekend gives you the benefit of longer meditation times on days when you’re more likely to find the time to do it. And to enjoy it.

We're actually going to look at hygge weekends, specifically, later on in this guide, but I am mentioning them in each of these sections, to sort of remind you that time flows together.

And whenever you do something good for yourself, like spending time meditating or journaling, its impact grows over time.
 So giving yourself more time during the weekends really will make a difference, and probably will make those ten minute routines serve you better, too. 
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10-Minute Morning
​Journal Routine


Is starting a journal one of the things you have wanted to add to your morning routine?
  

If one of the reasons you haven’t yet done it is that you don’t feel like you have enough time to dedicate to it each morning, the 10-minute idea may be a solution. On mornings when there just wasn’t enough time – even if that was every morning – you wouldn’t reject journaling altogether, you’d just spend a great deal less time writing. 

And then, you’d have weekends, if you needed them, to make up for lost time. Here are several ways to try a 10-minute morning journal routine… 

Create a self-care bullet journal and use it in several different ways… 

(1) To write yourself brief love notes or affirmations when time is short. 

(2) To set intentions for the day. 

(3) To prioritize the intentions you’ve already set 

(4) To jot down reminders you want to make sure you don’t forget during your busy morning. 

Use your other journal, but set a timer that gentle lets you know your time is almost up. 

(1) Do stream of consciousness writing about whatever comes to mind. 

(2) Choose a topic for exploration and write down any thoughts that come up during that time. 

(3) Think about what is coming up for you that day and write possible solutions for any challenges you know you’ll face. 

(4) Write down any insights you gained during brief moments of meditation or prayer. 

(5) Write a brief story about how you would like for the day to go, and what would be the best outcomes you can imagine for all that you have planned. 

Several of these will tempt you to spend more time than you have, especially at first, but you’ll be surprised at how easily you get used to journaling in short, brief bursts. And you can promise yourself you will get back to it when you have more time on the weekends. 

On quieter, slower Saturdays, you can give yourself more time to write.

Journal about your dreams for your life. How can you nurture & support them in the days to come?  


Think about any ongoing problems that don’t yet have a solution. Writing about them may help you think of one. 

Use your Self Care Sundays to journal about the week you are leaving behind, and give yourself plenty of time to think things through and then, let them go. Brainstorm ways to handle any tricky situations that may be coming up in the week ahead, and set your intentions for the coming week. 
 
Curl up with a pot of tea and nurture yourself as you plan the week ahead.
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With a cup of tea, we are invited to relax into all of ourselves, not letting the busy mind run the show. Allow any questions, reflections, or contemplations, but set aside to-dos for later. Keep breathing deeply, savoring your tea and any chosen mindful activity, landing ever more in the refuge of the present moment.
– Katy Taylor, PlumDeluxe.com 

10-Minute Tea Time


My morning cup of tea is one of my favorite parts of my morning routine! But sometimes, commitments I have made for my morning keep me from having the full tea experience I want, with my great big cup of tea. 

On those mornings, I make a much smaller cup; one that I can drink fairly quickly, instead of lingering over it to savor it as I usually do. 

And sometimes, it’s the next day before I can get back to my regular big cup routine. 

Do you love tea, too? 

If you do, then, instead of skipping your cup of tea on your busiest mornings, just make a smaller cup. That way, you still get to have it, even though it isn’t the normal amount you are used to drinking. 

On a slow weekend, you could make a pot of tea and give yourself time to savor each cup, while reading or writing in your journal.  

Or sip while watching the trees blow gently from your perch on the front porch. 

10-Minute Spiritual Practice
​or Quiet Time


Is it ever difficult for you to find time in your morning for your spiritual practice or quiet time? And when you do take the time, is it hard not to hear that voice in your head that reminds you of what else needs to be done? 

As a stay at home mom, I know this struggle all too well. I’ve often decided that there wasn’t time, that I was way too tired to pay attention long enough, or whatever excuse occurred to my tired mind in those moments. 

But an alternative, on days when it feels like there just isn’t enough time, is to have a shorter quiet time. Here are several things you can do, while still cozy under the covers, when you only have five or ten minutes before you simply must face the day… 

(1) Read a chapter in an inspirational book you have set on the table next to you before bedtime the day before.

(2) Read a chapter in your Bible or devotional.

(3) Try meditation or contemplative prayer, spending a few moments connecting with divine presence. 

(4) Sing a hymn or play music that is connected to your practice.

(5) Pray about anything coming up that day that concerns you. 

(6) Keep your journal near your bedside, and write a brief note about any insights that came to you during the activity you chose. 

Creating a 10-minute spiritual practice whenever you need one will take away the pressure to spend more time than you have, and free you from worrying about getting it done.

Have a longer quiet time, whenever possible, during a slower evening routine, after the kids are in bed. Or plan for and spend more time with your spiritual practice during your weekends. 
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Slowing down and starting a self-care practice is one of the best ways to shift the energy of your entire day. When you fill yourself up first, you have so much more to offer others throughout the day. Before you dive into all your obligations, deadlines and must-do’s for the day, allow yourself ten minutes to not have a single care in the world with some divine de-stressing. 
​– EpicMatcha.com

10-Minute Self-Care Ritual


Self care is always important, but never more so than when something happens that is so stressful it takes your breath away.

Just as we need to plan for our coziest good times, we need to prepare to tend to ourselves when things go wrong, or just when things are kinda meh or blah. I know, pardon my technical terms. :)

I suggest having go-to self care resources, like a cozy self care basket, and a go-to self care ritual, like this one...

(1) Light a tealight candle. 

(2) Put the pot on to make a cup of tea. 

(3) Do a brief meditation or some deep breathing while the pot is heating up. 

(4) Say your affirmations while the tea is steeping. 

(5) While sipping your tea, visualize the day you want to have or recreate & briefly, describe it as an intention in your journal. 

(6) As you begin to conclude this self-care ritual, make a wish for your day. In a day gone wrong, make a wish for healing.

​(7) Then, blow out your candle. 

​Use this self care ritual on good days, too.

And repeat this self-care ritual on the weekends, but give yourself more time for each step, and include as many of the other upcoming ideas for slow morning weekend routines as you would like.
 

The Hygge Art of
​Afternoon Tea at Home

My ultimate favorite ritual is my mid afternoon tea ritual that I make time and space for every single day. It’s the daily practice of preparing & drinking tea that reminds me – life can slow down, and breaks are important. 
-The Grounding Magic of Tea Ritual
Make time to pause in the middle of your day. Don't let the day rush by without stopping to rest. It's deliciously hygge, that pause!

Develop an afternoon tea ritual. I encourage you to make your afternoon tea moment an event in and of itself, and let it be one of the ways you add cozy moments to your day.

Elevate it from the experience of just drinking something while you're busy doing something else, and create a tea ritual. 

Here are simple ideas for creating one.

Turn your afternoon tea break into an elevated and cozy experience, by making it a tea ritual, using one or more of these five ideas...

(1) Light a tealight candle.

(2) Be present to the process of making your tea.

(3) Try a one-minute meditation as you drink it, and imagine a peaceful moment or scene.

(4) Make a wish for your day as you drink your last sips of tea.

(5) Blow out your tealight candle.
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Hygge Evening Routines

Taking time out the night before to prepare for the next day will not only make your morning go much more smoothly, but it will also give you a boost when you wake up. - Crystal Paine, Say Goodbye to Survival Mode
This guide is about taking a normal routine and elevating, making it cozy. Finding ways to make ordinary moments hygge ones.

And if you do that all day long, by night time, you are ready for a hygge evening routine. Your hygge evening routine needs to do several things.

It needs to prepare you and your family for the next day. It needs to help you recover from the day you just had. And it needs to help you wind down before you go to bed. Plus, it needs to do all of the above in a cozy way!

The entire process needs to feel cozy and relaxing but be thorough. Otherwise, it won't be effective.

And I can't emphasize that last sentence enough. Many people who focus on fixing their morning routines, need to start by fixing their evening routines first, because that is where the real problem.

And not only that, don't skip over the part about letting go of the day you just had and winding down before the next one. If you don't do that, you will wake up with it all the next day and who can't get ready weighed down by all that baggage?


Unfortunately, a lot of people don't even have an evening routine, and just sort of collapse, toss and turn, and then get up, to do the whole thing over again. It's no wonder we're all so stressed out, as we run pell mell through our days!

But if you are here, your mission is to create a simple life of everyday happiness and hygge moments and that includes the way you get ready for your evening to come to an end.

Create your plan first, and then, keep making adjustments until what you are experiencing, all day long, is exactly as hygge cozy as you want.

Don't settle for less!
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Hygge Weekends


When I was growing up, it would happen in one of two ways. I'd wake up in the morning and smell bacon cooking. Or, I'd look at the clock, and I would know, that because of the time, we were probably not going to go to church that morning. Once they decided to stay home, I'd talk them into the bacon if it wasn't already cooking, and we'd watch the Sunday morning movie.

Those were the days that I didn't have to get out of my pajamas until after breakfast. In fact, I hardly moved from the chair opposite the TV, except to eat, until after the movie was over. The bacon would often come with a side of pancakes, by the way.

They were really happy memories! No place to be, a movie to watch as a family, comfy pajamas for a good part of the day, and comfort food. What could be better?


Sometimes weekends can be a great way to make up for lost time when it comes to self care and coziness.

A lot has changed in the way we leave home and come back since the COVID-19 pandemic began, but if you, or anyone in your family, still has more time available on the weekends, than during the week, then weekends can be a great way to be on purpose about togetherness, about creating coziness and hygge moments.


5 Ideas for Cozy Family Weekends


(1) Lose yourself in a really good book. Not a book you think you should read someday but one you already know you’ll enjoy. Or grab a stack of books, or fill your Kindle so you can have a teapot and book marathon.

(2) Have a family movie marathon or watch all your favorites back to back. Let everyone stay comfy in their pjs and order pizza so you don’t have to pause for grocery shopping.

If you’re planning this weekend in advance, though, make a list of everything you’ll need and get it on Thursday or Friday so it’s already there.

(3) Invite all of your friends to come over and bring tea or food.

Have a game night or share your movie marathon with them. Or, if you’ve seen enough of your friends, plan a bunch of fun family activities to do at home. Have a family game night or a weekend marathon.

(4) Grab your journal and a cup of tea and dream about the week ahead. What would make it truly special?

After you have imagined the entire week, go through what you’ve written a pick a few ways to get as close to the ideal as possible. One each day if you can. Extra points if you do this exercise with your family.

(5) Treat yourself to a catch-up video call or long phone call with a long-distance best friend.

While the rest of the family watches a movie, make a pot of tea and sequester yourself in a closed room and give yourselves all the time in the world to catch up on each other’s lives.

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Self Care Sundays

Sundays should be sacred. Rejuvenating. Healing. Empowering. - Sahara, at EatFeelFresh.com
Sacred, rejuvenating, healing and oh, so cozy. Think about it.

It's still the weekend, and hopefully, you still have control over the way you spend your time. If you are recovering from the week, and also sinking deep into time with family and time alone for yourself, this is the day to really give it all you've got.

Are you with me?

Here are 25 ideas for extra ways to create everyday happiness and some special cozy moments during your self care Sundays...

(1) Stay in bed an extra hour and catch up on your sleep.

(2) Light a candle and enjoy several hours of its warmth, scent & flame.

(3) Cuddle with the kids and hang out with them. Do something you all love. Maybe even start a family weekend tradition.

(4) Make a morning pot of tea, instead of just a cup and linger over morning coziness.

(5) Make a bigger breakfast, with comfort food that makes the day a special occasion. Or, take the time for a new recipe you've been wanting to try.

(6) Meditate for 10-20 minutes, or longer if you'd like. YouTube has some great guided meditations you can try for free.

(7) Do a yoga routine, with no rush, because you've got all the time you need.

(8) Take an Epsom salts bath and soak away the week's tiredness.

(9) While away the afternoon with a good book.

(10) Make a special meal for dinner, and get your kids, or friends in the kitchen with you to help prepare it.

(11) Listen to a podcast you've been curious about. You may find a new treasure.

(12) Take a walk in nature.

(13) Listen to music you love all day long. You could even create a self care Sunday playlist of music that inspires, encourages or empowers you.

(14) Watch a movie or Netflix series. Want company? Invite friends over and get them to bring the popcorn.

(15) Write in your journal.

(16) Wear your most comfortable clothes or stay in your pajamas all day.

(17) Bake something. Make it a day to indulge.

(18) Plan the week ahead, setting intentions for what you hope to experience.

(19) Plan what you'll wear next week. I used to set them all aside, together, in one section of my closet and would group them as outfits.

(20) Get the next week's meal planning out of the way, too.

(21) Plan a new morning routine to try for the week.

(22) Do the same with an evening routine and start on Sunday night.

(23) After all that planning, take an afternoon nap. Just don't sleep so long you can't get back to sleep on Sunday night.

(24) If you're a woman of faith, take time after church to read through your sermon notes and have a quiet time where you think through how they apply specifically to your life. Jot down your thoughts in your journal.

(25) Catch up with long-distance friends and family. Call them, do a video chat or send an email and use your self care Sunday as a planned way to stay connected.
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Cozy, Hygge Style


When you have closet harmony, then everything you see in your closet is in harmony with who you are, but also, is in harmony with everything else you see in your closet. That's truly the only way to feel peaceful about what's in there, and that is the essence of hygge style.

So, it's not just about wearing clothes that feel good, although that's important. And it's not just about the simplicity of wearing a wardrobe that expresses and honors who you are, although that's beautiful, and you won't have true hygge style without that. But the hygge style trifecta will also include closet harmony.
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Hygge Home Decor Ideas


Hygge Your Home

The most important thing to keep in mind as you begin this process is to honor your budget and your time. Hygge-ifying your home doesn't have to happen overnight. Also, begin with what you have already, that you love, because that is bound to save you both time and money.

And the goal is to bring it to every room, getting rid of anything that doesn't warm you and filling it with at least one thing you love, that does. I encourage you to pause for a moment right now, if you can, and go into or envision each room in your home.

What will each room look like when it feels as warm and cozy as you want? Write the answer to that question, each time, in your journal. That's your vision.

And to support your vision, you may want to create a vision board or pinboard. Just make sure it's realistic and makes you feel good when you see it.

Once you have a vision for each room, make note of what you will have to remove from and what you'll need to add in order to bring your vision to life. Start with removing everything that doesn't belong, and then, leave that more spacious incarnation of that room for a day or two, before adding anything else.

You may find, after a day or two, that you don't need to add as much as you thought you would. But even if it needs ten things, only add one to each room, at first.

Because this way, your whole house will get cozier at the same time. You'll feel that sense of hygge as you walk from room to room, even if only one thing has been added, partly because what doesn't work will have been removed, creating energy space for the hygge elements.


Once you have added something in each room, go back to each one  and ask, "does it need anything else?" and write that answer in a bullet journal list. Then, I would do the same thing again and add one thing to each room, and then one thing more, until you know your home is finished.

It may not take very much, because hygge really is not about starting over and replacing  everything. Hygge cannot be bought. But the things that help to create the feeling of hygge can. :)

Once your home feels like hygge, go through this process once a season to refresh it and see if any changes are needed.


Create a Hyggekrog or Comfort Nook

Welcoming comfort. Your cozy reading room or nook needs to become a haven of comfort so that you find yourself wanting to stay a while.

As moms, we don't always have large pockets of time to ourselves. So the scene needs to be set already, waiting for you to step right in, pick up where you left off and get right back to reading time.

Slowing life down, or creating a hygge lifestyle in the larger sense, happens in moments. And you can empower them by making your home a place that invites you and your family to stop and rest. To pause for a moment.

Silent support for the lifestyle you want to create.

Each member of your family deserves that feeling of welcome, and a cozy space - in addition to their bedroom - that feels like a haven made just for him or her. The cozy reading room or nook or hangout room can be one of those spaces, and can be furnished in such a way that it serves the whole family.

Be sure to personalize it in ways that reflect each family member.

But start with the basics to create a foundation of coziness everyone can enjoy. These basics are an essential way to get started and then, anything else you add will be icing on the cake.

Here are the 9 essentials...

(1) The ultimate in comfy seating: a chair and a half or a sink-deep comfy sofa.

(2) Great lighting: a floor lamp right next to the reading spot, and additional lighting in an overhead lamp, or table lamp somewhere else in the room.

(3) Big windows and a lovely view: for letting in light, but also maintaining a connection to nature during those moments when you lift your gaze from whatever you're reading. No view? Add art.

(4) A bookcase with plenty of room for your  collection of reading material. But I suggest creating some spaces on the bookcase so that it's not just a wall of books, so your room feels more spacious.

(5) And end table next to your chair or sofa, with enough room for your latest stack of books to rest right next to you.

(6) Space for a cuppa, on your end table, for reading with your favorite beverage within easy reach.

(7) A comfy throw to snuggle under for warmth, nearby whenever you need it.

(8) A fluffy, fat, comfy pillow to lean against while you're reading.

(9) Your favorite candle to add warmth, scent and just the right mood.

What else would you add? And where would you put the TV?

Here are other ideas to consider...

The big comfy chair near the fireplace, with a spot for your cup of tea and a stack of textured blankets and soft throws ready to keep you warm if you need them. Maybe it's a window seat so you can be right there when the sun comes in.


Or a couch you've covered with a fuzzy warm blanket and several pillows positioned just right to watch lots of movies and a nearby table for everything else you need: the bowl of popcorn, the mug of hot chocolate.

What you want to do is create a comfort nook that you can go to every day ~ maybe several times a day ~ that you will love, that will enfold you with warmth, and make you feel hugged or wrapped up in comfort.


I have been creating nooks like this for more than a decade, but coming to understand hygge helped me realize that they didn't always have everything I would need. So, think about infusing one room or one area within a room with all of those things you'll need.

Light, coziness, warmth, a way to connect with the sun or with nature, a way to support moments of delight, a place to put your tea. Etc.

Take a moment to think about your home. Where would you put this nook?

I had to move things around quite a bit before I felt it had reached supreme hyggeness. And sometimes it's hard for me to leave well enough alone, so I may still make some changes before it's all over with, but any amount of effort I or you put into creating this haven space is and will be worth it.

Decorate your home with soft textures, such as knitted or fleece throw blankets, fluffy pillows, shag rugs, & comfortable furniture. The idea here is that no matter where you sit or stand, it feels pleasant against your skin.
​-Pia Edberg, 
The Cozy Life
One successful hygge trick Danish people employ is to surround themselves with different textures as part of their comfort resources. So they add blankets & pillows to couches and chairs and sometimes add plush, textured rugs.

I have tried this in my den and it really does add comfort. So instead of decorating with a throw by tossing it artfully over the side of a couch or chair, put it on the seat, itself, so you can feel it as you lean back.

Add Warm, Soft Lighting

Fluorescent lighting is too harsh, or can be. It always gives me a headache, so I was making the switch long before I knew about hygge.

But those who practice hygge often shift to using dimmer switches, candles, fairy lights and warmer, softer light bulbs and lamps to create a more soothing glow, while still providing enough of the light they need.

Are there places in your home where you could do that?

Lighter, Monochrome Color Schemes & Other Soothing Colors

Using creams or greys or your favorite soft colors can add a soothing touch to your overall decor and repeating them in a monochromatic color scheme layers that soothing effect, rather than creating a harsh contrast with colors that oppose. So shades of grey or cream or light brown or white or light blue - or a combination of them - can all add hygge influence to the look of your rooms.

And these color schemes can certainly change with the seasons.

No need to go buy everything new, though. If you have a dark brown animal print color scheme in your bedroom, add touches of cream or ivory, instead of replacing everything all at once. Grab a soft blue blanket and cover the bed with it, or add it to a chair.

In your living room, if your furniture is espresso leather, soften it with pillows and throws, and they will be what you see (and feel) first. You'll be amazed by what just a few, small changes can do for the way a room feels.

Furniture So Soft, You Can Sink into it

For hygge decor, you want furniture you can sink into and stay awhile, in soft textures. So stuffed sofas, a chair and a half, fluffy pillows and footrests are all ways to add cozy elements to a room. Beds with pillows that seem to summon you.

So when it comes time to replace something, you can choose something cozy. But meanwhile, add something that softens. If the sofa is hard, add pillows that are soft, and a fleece throw or blanket you love.

If the bed needs some tweaking, add one or two pillows, and place your slippers next to it. If the desk in the corner seems harsh, add a throw across it's back and a vase of flowers in a matching color or a small plant that warms it up.

Start Small

Make small changes first, try them out and then, increase whatever is working when you can. In no time, you'll have a home that feel cozy and warms and delights everyone who enters.

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Hygge Home Meditation


Find the comfy coziest spot in your home and take a big fat pillow with you. Either curl up by the fire or bring a candle to light.

Once the candle or the fire is lit, take a moment to stare at the flame and center yourself. Then, imagine that the warmth of that flame, the warmth of that light is filling every room, corner and crevice in your home.

Imagine that warmth welcoming you every time you came home. Imagine it soothing you to sleep every night. What would it be like for your home to become a haven of warmth, love and connection?

Warmth, love and connection so delicious that no one ever wants to leave it, including you. Imagine that you are asking your home what it needs to become that place. 

And then, listen for any great ideas that come to mind. Promise yourself you'll make it so.
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Defining Hygge Homemaking

2/16/2021

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Homemaking is about more than just cleaning a house. It’s about making a home where the people who live there feel warm, loved, and safe to be themselves.- Melissa Ringstaff,
​A Virtuous Woman.
That sounds like a great goal as 2021 continues, doesn’t it?

As a homemaker, how can you make your home a space where you and your family all feel warm and cozy, deeply loved, and totally free to be themselves?


How can you offer similar grace to those who will come for a visit this year? How can you make your 2021 home cozy?
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What is Hygge Homemaking?


Cozy Comfort: On the one hand, hygge homemaking is easy to think of in terms of physical comfort. Creating a home for your family that makes them feel welcome, cozy and comfortable. The use of lighting, soft fabric, fluffy pillows and more to create just the right effect.

Warm and Soothing: Hygge Homemaking is also about emotional comfort. Creating a space for your family wherein your family feels loved, supported, heard and comforted when life is cruel to them.

​It’s creating a soft place to land, where everyone feels free to be exactly who they are and knows deep down that what they will receive in response is love and acceptance. It is often the only place that can offer that kind of guarantee.


Sometimes I like to walk through the house and hold each room in my thoughts, like a prayer walk or blessing session for the family. This I do alone, and often silently unless the rest of the family are out of the building. It’s a way of centring myself in the house, and investing it with love.
​- Jo Kneale, Cosy Happy Hygge 
Watch the video for several ways to add hygge to your home this winter...
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Hygge Home Intentions


​What does your home need?

Take a moment to think about your home, as it is right now. Are there any tweaks needed so that it can better nurture and support your family this year?

And are there any ideas from the hygge at home video you want to make use of in your home?
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Speaking of nurture and support, hygge homemakers need it, too. I encourage you to begin each day with a hygge slow morning ritual designed just for you.

I like to light a candle or two, even before I have my quiet time, and just take a few moments to be silent and connect with my home. 
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I re-commit to it, thank it for providing a safe place for us to land, and think about what it might need that day that isn’t already on the agenda. 

And I think of each task I do for my home and family as an act of love, which elevates it and connects it with my heart. I also move through those tasks at a slower pace, so they aren’t stressful and I can do them mindfully.

How might you make your homemaking a more hygge and mindful experience?

See you tomorrow!

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Home Decor Ideas Based on Myers-Briggs

2/4/2021

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The Myers-Briggs Personality Test offers insight into who you are & the type of things you gravitate towards, as well as how you handle making decisions. - The Spruce 
A while ago, my friend and fellow blogger, Kebba Button, found several articles that guide what you do with your home based on your Myers-Briggs type, and she thought I'd like them. Boy, was she right!

It's easy to find lots of home decorating ideas, but how often do you find simple ways to match those ideas to who you are? Read on for more information...

Which Style Home to Choose

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I'm an INFP and I can't even begin to tell you how much I would love to live in an English cottage!! It would be perfect for me. And, as you can see, The Spruce agrees. Here's why...
You're dreamy and idealistic and you like things to feel quaint and comfy. English cottages tend to look like they were plucked straight out of a fairytale, and embody a sense of warmth and kindness that you relate to. 
​ - The Spruce

The Best Home Decor Style

You're a gentle, caring soul...
Vintage furniture and distressed patterns line up with your old soul vibe.
- The Spruce, INFP
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You're a warm and open person who enjoys making people feel comfortable.
​-The Spruce, ENFJ
I think I'm a gentle, warm and open person with an old soul vibe. But even if I'm not, I definitely prefer the cottage style.

And it's funny that they do seem to match INFPs with cottage style, but not all the time. Go figure!

What about your type's home decor style?

Click the link above to see if they chose right for you, and let me know what you think. Now, let's see what their choices are for paint colors.

Which Color Paint to Use

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In this article, The Spruce suggests choosing a paint color based on the way the color makes you feel, and not only that, but what you want to feel in that room, or your home. The idea is that your personality would have an impact on the color that would feel best. Okay, let's see...

Take a moment to look at the color of the paragraph titles in this blog post. Does it seem similar to any of the paint colors? ;)

I have always loved to watch decorating shows and before I fell in love with the Hallmark channel, HGTV was my TV's default. And on two different shows, that I watched several different times, as repeats, the designer painted a wall in that color. Years later, my friends Bob and Todd had an entire room in their house painted in that color.

I LOVE IT! But I would want it in a den or sunroom, not the main gathering place. I wouldn't want to risk getting tired of it, or to lose that sort of surprised "Oh, there it is again" feeling when I walked into a lesser-used room.

But I am not an ENFP. And that INFP blue is an absolute no! As is every other color up there.

On the other hand, ENFP is only one letter off, so they didn't do too badly.

What about you?

Do any of them strike your fancy? And is the one you like a match for your type? Inquiring minds want to know.

But meanwhile, do your rooms have a statement piece? Let's see what kind they think you should have.

The Statement Piece You'd Splurge On

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For this article, The Spruce begins with the idea that your approach to decorating should start with buying a statement piece, and then you should build the rest of your decorating scheme around it. Well, I don't think of myself as a statement piece type, so when I read that, I wondered if that would mean that the INFP recommendations wouldn't be a match.
INFPs are daydreamers and they spend a lot of their time keeping to themselves.
So true! But the recommendation that follows would not appeal to me at all - a canopy bed. No. No, I don't think so.

The closest match was the INFJ recommendation - more on INFJ, later. It was to begin with a nook with a bench.

Now, I am all about the cozy corner near a window. But I want to be curling up in something really comfy. Not on a bench.

If you check out this particular article, yourself, tell me what you think. Was the recommendation a fit for your type?

Now, let's see if they guess right about what kind of holiday decorations you like.
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Holiday Decorating by Type

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I must say, I was stunned at the insight. The Spruce suggested that INFPs prefer holiday decorations with rustic charm - absolutely true - and that it's the comforting part of the holiday season that means the most to us.

I have never thought of it as comforting before, but I think that's true. I dive headfirst into Christmas magic and the Christmas spirit, but the result of steeping myself in it is not only happiness, but comfort.

Isn't it fascinating to think that even the way you want Christmas to look in your home might be heavily influenced by your personality type?
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You intentionally create
​a quiet sanctuary.
That's one of the things they said about INFJs. I always have a look at both INFP & INFJ because as I have gotten older, I am more INFx in some ways and can sometimes relate to them both.

And creating sanctuary in my home is what I long to do all year long.

Want to know how to refresh your home this year? Let's see what they say.
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Refresh Your Home for 2021

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The recommendations for each type references the year we have had, and it almost felt like the article was suggesting ways to use your home as a resource for moving forward. Here's the suggestion for my type, the INFP...
With its focus on simplicity, soft hues and memories of a simpler time, Cottagecore elements will be the perfect refresh...Purchasing vintage furniture, thick woven blankets and mixing lighter shades are some subtle ways to get started. - The Spruce
That is perfect for me, and is what I already wanted to do, in my home. I mean, I named it Gingerbread Cottage for a reason. :)

​Go read the explanations for the choices they suggest, based on your Myers-Briggs type and then, tell me if they feel like a fit for you. In general, what do you think about the pairing of Myers-Briggs type and decorating decisions?

​See you tomorrow!
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